Uncontested Divorce – Doing it the nice way

Uncontested Divorce? It’s Still a Good Idea to Retain a Houston Divorce Lawyer

When many people hear the word “divorce,” they immediately picture spouses who are involved in ongoing disputes and can no longer stand to even be in the same room. While it is certainly true that many divorces are extremely adversarial, there are also couples who both recognize that it’s in their best interest to get a divorce and attempt to work together to resolve the issues they need before their marriage can be over. Though this article focuses on uncontested divorces, our article, “Contested Divorce vs. Uncontested divorces: What you Need to Know” outlines the differences.

If you find yourself in a situation where your spouse is getting along and seems to agree about resolving these issues, it’s understandable that you’re considering handling your divorce on your own. However, it’s important to understand that It’s always advisable to consult with an attorney during the divorce process. Even if you don’t retain a lawyer to handle every aspect of your divorce in Texas, it’s important to understand your legal rights and to be prepared to fight for them if a dispute arises.

Not Understanding Your Rights Could Result in Disastrous Consequences

When you’re getting divorced, you must understand your legal rights and the divorce process in Texas. If you don’t, you could make concessions in your settlement agreement that you don’t even know to question. It’s helpful to consider a hypothetical scenario to understand how this may work. Let’s say that your spouse started a business during your marriage. The business was entirely his or her idea, and you never worked for it or on it. At your divorce, the business hasn’t taken off and has no real value. Because you never contributed to the business, you don’t feel like you have any ownership interest in it and frankly don’t care as it’s not generating any income or worth anything. As a result, when you and your spouse are going through your assets, you have no objections when your spouse says, “I’m going to keep the business, okay?” Five years later, after your divorce is finalized, your spouse sells the business for $10,000,000.

In this hypothetical scenario, you potentially walked away from $5,000,000. How? Because your spouse started the business while you were married, it was considered marital property. This means that absent other circumstances, you likely had a 50 percent interest in the business, even though you did not work for it or participate in its formation.

While this is an extreme example, it shows how important it is to understand your rights fully. The most effective way to ensure that your divorce agreement is in your best interest and does not result in unforeseen consequences is to discuss your situation with an experienced attorney as soon as you realize that your marriage is ending.

Your Amicable Divorce Can Turn Adversarial in the Blink of an Eye

It’s also important to remember that while you and your spouse may be getting along just fine right now, that may not continue to be the case. Even if you agree that the marriage needs to end, emotions can be unpredictable, and suddenly, you and your soon-to-be ex may be unable to communicate constructively. Fortunately, if you’ve already retained an attorney to represent you, he or she can communicate with your spouse on your behalf. An emotionally uninvolved party can often negotiate more effectively than someone with an emotional stake in the outcome of a dispute. In addition, the participation of an attorney will let your spouse know that you are serious about enforcing your rights, which can significantly strengthen your bargaining position.

Things You Say and Do Can Affect While Your Divorce is Pending Can Affect its Outcome

Another reason it’s highly advisable to retain an attorney is that, At the same time, you’re involved in a seemingly uncontested divorce, and your actions while your divorce is pending can significantly impact its outcome. For example, if you and your spouse have amicably separated, you may want to celebrate your newfound freedom by starting to date again or going out more often with your single friends. Unfortunately, these kinds of seemingly innocuous actions could affect your legal rights if your divorce became contested later. Texas judges are allowed to consider infidelity when they make determinations about the way that marital property is divided and may not look favorably upon a spouse who couldn’t wait until the divorce was final to start a new relationship.  Similarly, if going out with single friends tends to involve drinking alcohol at bars and clubs (as it often does), a judge may question your ability to parent any children you and your spouse may have effectively.

You may want to read “Does Adultery Play a Role in a Texas Divorce?” for an in-depth discussion of infidelity and its effect on divorce in Texas.

The guidance of an attorney through the divorce process can be invaluable, whether it’s amicable or not. At the Rudisel Law Firm, we represent clients in both uncontested and contested divorces and are dedicated to finding solutions whenever possible. In fact, in some instances, we can assist both spouses in their divorce, allowing the couple to save time and money. Call our office today to find out if this option may be available to you.

Call The Rudisel Law Firm Today to Schedule a Consultation with a Divorce Attorney in Houston.

If you are considering divorce or have already started the process, it’s highly advisable to retain a Houston divorce lawyer as soon as you can—even if you and your spouse are getting along. Divorces that start off amicably can quickly become adversarial, and it’s only prudent to make sure that you are ready to protect your legal rights. To schedule a free case evaluation with Texas attorney Shawn M. Rudisel, please complete an online evaluation or call us at 713-781-7775 today.

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